Hey, I might have to get creative with this post. And don’t expect it to be very detailed, lol, I warn you right now. This is to give you a broad idea of things to do a date with. I’ll break it down into three categories – you choose which one you wanna go with.

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Hmm… It may be hard going with three categories – I’ll go with A. Cheap Things To Do On A Date, B. Romantic Things To Do On A Date, and C. 10 Things NOT To Do On A Date.

Cheap Things To Do On A Date.

1. Go to the movies
2. Get pizza
3. Go to outlet malls (or cheap stores like Urban Planet)
4. Fishing
5. Swimming
6. Snorkeling
7. Running/Jogging/Walking
8. Scooters and/or bikes = fun times
9. Write a song together
10. Write a poem together
11. Watch the sunset
12. Go to the beach
13. Get some drinks
14. Buy some condoms
15. When people stare at you two, yell out, “C*CK!” and point to your crotch
16. Play d*ck-hold chicken – this is when you pretending you’re holding your wiener (holding your hand in front of you, basically) and walking up to people with your crotch pointing forwards, and possibly making sounds like you’re creeping up on them
17. Climb trees
18. Explore nature
19. Explore downtown (if you have one… if you live in a small city, you’re SOL…  (s*** outta luck))
20. Movie night at one of your houses
21. Go to Costco, and try all the samples – then afterwards go sit in the little garden furniture they have and eat
22. Talk about the universe
23. Go on a bus ride… Shh – at least I’m trying. It’s only a $1.40, anyways, and think of all the good times you’ll share
24. Back to business – anyways, go to a pet store and check out all the pets
25. Some more cheap ideas… Hmmm. Oh I got it, go two a playground and “double-date” on the swings! (Swing in synch with her)
26. Go fishing
27. Go to a party – don’t host one – attend it, that way you save money and you still get drinks
28. … Find a way to get into parties, you may not be cool enough to hang with the cool kids (joking :p)
29. Get together for a library trip, and do homework
30. Go to a grocery store, and ride the shopping carts – come up with recipes before-hand, and see if you can grab the ingredients while barelling down the aisles. (Make sure you get your date to push the cart!) Afterwards, go cook for each other
31. Play a card game…
32. Truth or dare in the tree house
33. Find out where Waldo is. I can’t find him…
34. Try coming up with better cheap date ideas than me (make sure you tell me what they are)

I’m betting a lot of shy girls may not want to do some of these things… They may be into more romantic things. No worries, I know how to handle them (sort of). I dunno, I just start to feel very comfortable, then let that be a guide for me. They start to loosen up as well, then it all works out. =] Just keep that in mind when you’re going on a date – you chill out, then she’ll chill out.

It’s also very important to make sure the girl stops being so logical, and starts getting into the emotional mindset. This is HUGELY important – you don’t want her to be over-thinking everything, or something silly.

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Romantic Things To Do On a Date

1. Go for a nice, elegant dinner
2. Attend a play
3. If this isn’t your first date, then go back to the place where you did have your first date… But with champagne, and strawberries, and chocolate (or chocolate-covered strawberries)
4. Cuddle
5. Drink wine, while talking about each other
6. Recite poetry to each other
7. Candle-lit dinner
8. Go to an art show
9. Walk on a beach when the sun is setting – that’s always awesome… (Unless your beaches suck, and are rocky like mine -.-’)
10. Sneak out of the house, and meet up like Romeo & Juliet
11. Go whale-watching
12. Take them out for ice cream, and just chat
13. Casual coffee, with stimulating conversation
14. God this is hard… Uhmm – Draw paintings of each other
15. Cook dinner for each other (possibly combined with the grocery store idea I had mentioned before)
16. Listen to slow jams
17. Ballroom dancing
18. Some other form of slow-dancing
19. Attend a gala
20. Pick them up some flowers, and give it to them at the beginning of the date – or maybe even in the middle of the date… Or the end. Holding flowers the whole time complicates things
21. Surprise massage
22. Cozy fire under the stars
23. Drive-in movie
24. Moonlight cruise
25. Go to the spa
26. City light
27. Take dance lessons
28. Rent out a boat
29. Play a game
30. Cuddle up together with a book on a cold day
31. Overnight camping
32. Go watch fireworks together
33. Go on a double date

I felt a little less alive while writing those ideas on romantic things to do a date with… I may have to liven it up a little more with this last part.

10 Things NOT To Do On A Date

1. Be racist and mean it
2. Hit them in any way besides playfully
3. Eat all their food when they go to the bathroom
4. Break their stuff when you’re over at their house
5. Be a jerk
6. Only talk about yourself – be interested in talking about them, and acknowledge them for f’s sakes
7. Never talk about yourself – okay… Come on, you’re losing out on a huge piece of the puzzle. Balance this out
8. Dress in really bad clothing
9. Have smelly breath – brush, floss, bring mints, whatever you need to do
10. Steal from them

Obviously this is a massive list =) I’m quite proud of it – not bad for a days work. Just to din this idea into your heads, you need to be able to have fun on the first date, and second date – whatever date you’re on. You should also plan it out properly, and not have the girl thinking random things that aren’t about the date.

I actually went on a date once, and it literally was the Costco one. But I added in FutureShop, and Starbucks in there :p We hung out, when the date was over, I saw another girl I was seeing at the time. She asked me out on a date – and that was pretty funny. I think she got jealous? … I didn’t go on the date, but it was still nice to be asked. Lol

Really this is dating on a dime, you don’t have to have expensive things to do a date, you just need to have a good time! It’s really what it’s all about.

Until next time, hope you have a successful date,

–Kris

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